I have always loved to read. When I was a kid I never minded a rainy summer day. I usually had a book to read and a rainy day gave me an opportunity to get lost in the story of my book as I read for hours on end.
I no longer have the time to read for hours on end, but I usually have a stack of books that I would like to read. As I look ahead to summer and some vacation, I have several books that I am ready to dig into. Here is my summer reading list.
One of my favorite Christian authors is Francine Rivers and I look forward to enjoying "The Scarlett Thread". I love Francine Rivers because she has historical detail woven throughout her stories. Also, her characters seem real as they struggle through adversity.
I also love biographies and biographical books. My son recommended "Land of Second Chances" to my husband because it is the story of "The Impossible Rise of Rwanda's Cycling Team". My husband is an avid bicycle rider and has been enjoying reading through this book. There is history woven in this story that is "by turns horrifying, moving, and unexpectedly funny".
I heard about the next book from my daughter and also from the director of Solanco Neighborhood Ministries. "When Helping Hurts" is a non-fiction book that speaks on "how to alleviate poverty without hurting the poor and yourself". I hope to gain valuable insights for our Community Outreach committee at church.
I picked up "Ordering your Private World" by Gordon MacDonald a year or so ago, but have not read it yet. I have enjoyed some novels that Mr. MacDonald wrote and look forward to the insights I glean from this book. His novels are thought provoking, and I am sure this book will also make me think.
Joshua Harris is one of several younger writers that make me think through and evaluate some of the religious traditions that I grew up with. Are there areas in my life that I need to see in a different light? Where can I continue to grow? I have Joshua's book called "Dug Down Deep". I look forward to reading through some of his journey.
I am not sure how far I will get on my list this summer, but I have lots of options. I look forward to sitting by the water with iced tea and my books and enjoying the beauty of nature as I read.
Deb Riddell
Closet Manager
Monday, June 16, 2014
Monday, June 9, 2014
"My P.I.T. Crew"
If any of you have read other blogs I’ve written, you know
that I’ve experienced a fair share of loss and heartache. I can relate and
empathize with my clients because of those struggles. Like King David in Psalm
13, I’ve asked “How long must I wrestle with my thoughts and every day have
sorrow in my heart?”
The sufferings we experience impact how we relate… some of
it not so good. Some of us take that pain and isolate…striving to self-protect
and never feel pain again. We pull away from family or friends. We don’t speak
up at work. We create a barrier that doesn’t allow people too close. We adopt a
mentality or perspective that believes to lose someone or something we love is
un-survivable so we decide to not love again or at least not love too deeply.
Sometimes our sufferings teach us the opposite…how to
appreciate and love people more. We choose to be vulnerable and open-hearted
with the folks who are in our lives. We reach out in our need and ask for help.
We choose to trust people who’ve proven themselves trustworthy.
During the last five years, I’ve developed a “P.I.T. crew”
to help me through some of the roughest struggles of my life. “P.I.T.” stands
for Personal Intercessory Team. I chose six women who I
knew would pray for me at a moment’s notice. These women love The Lord and love
me. They are encouragers and exhorters. They are trustworthy and honest. They
know when I need a hug and when I need a kick in the pants. It is not an
overstatement to say that I don’t know how I would have made it through the
past five years without them.
If you need support as you go through life’s struggles, I
encourage you to develop a P.I.T. crew. Here are some ideas of how I did it:
1. Start
with two or three people who you know would pray. They should appreciate
confidentiality and be discreet. Ask them if they would be on your P.I.T. crew.
2. Develop a system of how to communicate. I send
my P.I.T. crew an email three or four times a year, but our main communication
is via texting or phone calls. If I’m in immediate need for prayer and
encouragement, I simply send a text and within minutes I have responses back.
Some say, “Praying for you right now,” “I’ve got your back,” or “I’ll call you
when I get home from work.” I receive
Bible verses or written prayers.
And as I read or hear my friends’ responses I am lifted up
from low places. The darkness stops overwhelming me and I can see light again.
Shannon Shertzer, MS, NCC
Monday, June 2, 2014
How is Love Defined?
In my
journey to acquire a master’s degree in counseling, I have obtained knowledge
about human behavior and what motivates human beings to do the things we do.
The mind is a fascinating organ and proves that God did not haphazardly create
human beings. As the psalmist David proclaimed, “I praise you because I am
fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that
full well” (Psalm 139:14, NIV).
One’s behaviors flow from many areas. The
apostle Paul knew that professing to be a Christian meant that we should be
different because the Holy Spirit of God dwelt within. Yielded to the Holy
Spirit, Christian’s behaviors should flow out from having the love of God in us.
He illustrates this in “the love chapter” (1 Corinthians 13).
I am
troubled by the observations I have made recently as my mom, sisters and I go
through personal struggles with the decline of my father’s health, my sister’s
health and other events that have served to emotionally exhaust us. I have
watched as people who claim to be Christian inquire about personal affairs
under the guise of “love.” Yet the
outcomes prove only to be used for gossip.
Paul says,
“Love … does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth”
(v. 6). Some people love to find out the shortcomings of others and spread that
evil report. They are glad about the bad. These “tabloid-minded Christians”
delight in having a scrap of knowledge that sets them apart from others. In a
perverse way such idle talk and gossip strengthens their self-image. And to the
degree their evil rumors reduce the perceived value of others; the gossipers supposed
to build their own value and worth in the eyes of others.
This is not the way of agape
love. Rather, love “rejoices in the truth” and actively advertises the good
things in others. Love is the basis of the old adage, “If you don’t have
anything good to say about someone or something, don’t say anything at all.”
When there has been hardship or failure, rather than expose it love would seek
to cover it and see it healed. Rather than relate about darkness and failures,
love would compel us to seek to edify and build up rather than tear down lives
and reputations with our words.
How then do we
steer clear of conducting ourselves in a manner that is worthy and profitable
to others? The answer is found in 1 Thess. 4:11 which states that we are, “To
make it your ambition and definitely endeavor to live quietly and
peacefully and to mind your own affairs….” Matthew Henry’s commentary says, “Satan is
very busy to disquiet us….so then, Do your own business. When we go
beyond this, we expose ourselves to a great deal of inquietude. Those who are
busy-bodies, meddling in other men’s matters, generally have but little quiet
in their own minds and cause great disturbances among their neighbors;….”
Connie Hanten, BCMCLC
New Hope Life Coach
Tuesday, May 27, 2014
Ascension Thursday
Here
in Lancaster County, we are familiar with Ascension Thursday, which is
celebrated by many faith communities among us exactly 40 days after Easter
Sunday each year. We look around and find businesses closed and Amish buggies
on the move all around our area, going to various services and gatherings to
remember this spiritual event. What is it really all about?
The
Ascension is a redemptive event of incredibly profound importance. This amazing
event marks the moment of Jesus Christ's highest point of exaltation prior to
His visible and physical return as glorious reigning King over all the material
and spiritual omniverse. It is in the Ascension that Christ Jesus re-entered
into His glorious spiritual dominion once again.
Jesus
described His departure from this earth as being better for us than His
continuing physical presence among His disciples. In ascending, God the Son
would both rule and abide internally within every one of His true followers
with His Father God, through the outpoured third Person of the Triune Godhead,
the Holy Spirit of God, Who would be sent forth within days of Jesus’ Ascension.
When
Jesus first announced His departure to the disciples, they were saddened by the
news, not understanding and only recognizing Him in complete humanity He shares
with all of us. However, in the actual experience of Jesus’ Ascension, they
came to realize the amazing significance of this great event.
Luke
records the actual circumstance of the Ascension for us:
Now
when He had spoken these things, while they watched, He was taken up, and a
cloud received Him out of their sight. And while they looked steadfastly toward
heaven as He went up, behold, two men stood by them in white apparel, who also
said, "Men of Galilee, why do you stand gazing up into heaven? This same
Jesus, who was taken up from you into heaven, will so come in like manner as
you saw Him go into heaven." (ACTS OF THE APOSTLES 1:9-11)
In
these few Biblical texts, we are given the bare outline of this astounding
experience, which is attested to have been seen by the Eleven remaining
apostles in Luke 24.As we look at these verses of Scripture, we notice that
Jesus departed in a cloud. This is probably a reference to the Shekinah, the
cloud of God's glory, which had accompanied the Israelites as they wandered the
wilderness at the time of the Exodus, and enveloped Solomon’s Temple at its
dedication.
The
Shekinah exceeds in radiance any ordinary cloud. It is the visible
manifestation of God's radiating glory. Therefore, the manner of Jesus'
departure was not at all ordinary. It was a moment of remarkably ineffable splendor.
To
ascend means "to go up" or "to rise." However, when the
term Ascension is used with respect to Jesus Christ, it has a deeper, richer,
and more specific meaning. Jesus' Ascension is absolutely unique. It goes
beyond Enoch being taken directly into heaven or the departure of Elijah in a
chariot of fire. Jesus' Ascension refers to His going to the uniquely special
divine place for the singular special purpose of His ongoing intercession for
His flock, His peculiar people, His royal nation of born of the Spirit
children!
The
Bible helps us to understand the interaction between Jesus and His Heavenly
Father God, through the Kingly picture of Jesus being enthroned at His Father's
right hand. This is an anthropomorphic picture of Jesus returning to the
fullness of exaltation sharing again the magnificent splendor of His Father and
the Holy Spirit.
In
the book of Revelation, Chapter 5, Jesus’ return to the Father is heralded in a
deeply worshipful, visionary manner:
And
I saw lying on the open hand of Him Who was seated on the throne a scroll
(book) written within and on the back, closed and sealed with seven
seals;2 And I saw a strong angel announcing in a loud voice,
Who is worthy to open the scroll? And [who is entitled and deserves and is
morally fit] to break its seals?3 And no one in heaven or on
earth or under the earth [in the realm of the dead, Hades] was able to open the
scroll or to take a [single] look at its contents.4 And I wept
audibly and bitterly because no one was found fit to open the scroll or
to inspect it.5 Then one of the elders [of the heavenly
Sanhedrin] said to me, Stop weeping! See, the Lion of the tribe of Judah, the
Root (Source) of David, has won (has overcome and conquered)! He can open the
scroll and break its seven seals!6 And there between the throne
and the four living creatures (beings) and among the elders [of the heavenly
Sanhedrin] I saw a Lamb standing, as though it had been slain, with seven horns
and with seven eyes, which are the seven Spirits of God [the sevenfold Holy
Spirit] Who have been sent [on duty far and wide] into all the earth.7 He
then went and took the scroll from the right hand of Him Who sat on the throne.8 And
when He had taken the scroll, the four living creatures and the twenty-four
elders [of the heavenly Sanhedrin] prostrated themselves before the Lamb. Each
was holding a harp (lute or guitar), and they had golden bowls full of incense
(fragrant spices and gums for burning), which are the prayers of God’s people
(the saints).9 And [now] they sing a new song, saying, You are
worthy to take the scroll and to break the seals that are on it, for You were
slain (sacrificed), and with Your blood You purchased men unto God from every
tribe and language and people and nation.10 And You have made
them a kingdom (royal race) and priests to our God, and they shall reign [as
kings] over the earth! 11 Then I looked, and I heard the voices
of many angels on every side of the throne and of the living creatures and the
elders [[f]of
the heavenly Sanhedrin], and they numbered ten thousand times ten thousand and
thousands of thousands,12 Saying in a loud voice, Deserving is
the Lamb, Who was sacrificed, to receive all the power and riches and wisdom
and might and honor and majesty (glory, splendor) and blessing! 13 And
I heard every created thing in heaven and on earth and under the earth [in
Hades, the place of departed spirits] and on the sea and all that is in it,
crying out together, To Him Who is seated on the throne and to the Lamb be
ascribed the blessing and the honor and the majesty (glory, splendor) and the
power (might and dominion) forever and ever (through the eternities of the
eternities)! 14 Then the four living creatures (beings) said,
Amen (so be it)! And the elders [of the heavenly Sanhedrin] prostrated
themselves and worshiped Him Who lives forever and ever.
Jesus’
ascent to this completed place of universally exclaimed exaltation, followed
after completion of His eternally chosen descent into humiliation in His
incarnation as a human being. This state of humiliation, from Jesus’ miraculous
conception by the Holy Spirit in the womb of Mary, to His impeccable, sinless
life for 33 years, to His powerful ministry of compassion and redemption, to
His Passion, was the culmination of God’s eternal plan of salvation for
humanity.
In
His going to a shamelessly contrived trial, to a shameful crucifixion tree, to
a shadowy cavern-like tomb, to Sheol’s cold terrors, to showing complete
triumph, Jesus emerged as total Victor, rising out from the depths of the lower
regions of the earth. After Jesus’ resurrection, His appearances to so many in
the forty days that followed, with His teaching, instruction, and commands to
His disciples in a variety of places and at various times, to as many as 500 at
once, were all infallible evidences of
His rising again. (1
CORINTHIANS 15)
In
returning again to His proper seat of absolute cosmic authority, as the
victorious Messiah ascended through the heavens.(i.e., angelic levels of the
Gnostics or the seven heavens of the rabbis, - 1 PETER 3:22; EPHESIANS 4:9). II Enoch 7:1-5 also says that the fallen
angels are imprisoned in the second heaven. Jesus, by this very act of
ascending, announced His victory over all the angelic realms, as He lifted
above and beyond all other realms and dominions to the ultimate pinnacle of all
that is, standing astride all the created order, both material and spiritual. (i.e.,
beyond every possible spiritual opposition, cf. the Jerome Bible Commentary,
p. 367)
Once
and for all exalted above and beyond all heavenly realms, Jesus entered again
to His place exalted over the heavens, for His coronation, His confirmation as the
eternal King of Kings and Lord of Lords. In this current age, with Jesus ascended
beyond heaven for His coronation as King of Kings, this new reality has been
Biblically expressed as, Jesus being seated at the right hand of God.
This
Scripture picture of Jesus at the right hand of God represents the seat of
authority. From this position Jesus rules, administrates His kingdom, and
presides as the ultimate Judge of heaven and earth. At the right hand of the
Father, Jesus is seated as the Head of His body, the church.
Jesus’
entrance was not in the same state as His pre-incarnate existence as the Logos
Word, God the Son, but instead both then and forever, as the Theanthropos. (the
God Man, with a human nature and body in eternal hypostatic union with His
divine nature as the Second Person of the Triune Godhead)
As
the eternal divine/human God Man, Jesus also ascended to enter the heavenly
Holy of Holies to continue His work, as our great High Priest, representing
redeemed humanity before the Father as One of us. Jesus has remained both in
heaven, embodying fully and eternally all of the indwelling Deity or Godhead,
while simultaneously filling the entire universe with Himself! (EPHESIANS
4:1-10, COLOSSIANS 2:9-10)
As
we focus in on Ephesians 4:10, which is translated as, “He Who descended is the
[very] same as He Who also has ascended high above all the heavens, that He
[His presence] might fill all things (the whole universe, from the lowest to
the highest),” we come into a sense of both the intensity and immensity of
Paul’s revelatory insights into the true deity of Jesus. Although the apostle
John’s Revelation is filled with amazing imagery, Paul’s declaration in this
text conceptualizes and communicates the fullest sphere of divine authority
that Jesus wields over all things, as well as expressing His divine attributes
as God the Son, Second Person of the Godhead.
In
heaven, during this present Church Age, when the dead exist in a spiritual
Intermediate State, Jesus reigns as King and intercedes for us as our High
Priest, until He returns to earth in His appearing or Parousia. Jesus’ filling
the entire universe with Himself, is a mystery that can only be seen dimly by
our limited understandings, but has special qualities that we can meditate upon
and be edified by.
The
question that was considered by scholars of the Reformation period, was whether
this statement included Jesus’ human nature as well. Lutheran scholastics gave
their firm affirmation to this understanding, linking it with their view of
Holy Communion and the doctrine of consubtantiation, which focuses on the “real
Presence” of Jesus as,"truly and
substantially present in, with and under the forms
of,” the consecrated bread and wine of Lord’s Supper.
The
Swiss Reformers, following Calvin, who strongly proclaim that Jesus’ human
nature is inexorably connected to His physical Presence in heavenly realms,
which His followers commune with through faith, receiving Him into
themselves, by His emanating power dynamically, or by the grace of the Holy
Spirit pneumatically, in the individual believer partaking of Communion.
From
His position of ascended authority, Jesus has poured out His Spirit upon the
church, and this outpouring is intimately connected to His omnipresent filling
of all things. John Calvin remarked, “Being raised to heaven, he withdrew his
bodily presence from our sight, not that he might cease to be with his
followers, who are still pilgrims on the earth, but that he might rule both
heaven and earth more immediately by his power.”
In
this position, Jesus' authority and governmental jurisdiction and His
administration also extend beyond the sphere of His church, to embrace the
continued upholding of entire multi-verse, and the destiny of every nation and
person in the whole world. (HEBREWS 1 )
Through
these lines of heavenly authority, church and state may be distinguished within
Jesus' domain, yet they are never separated or divorced, as He guides the
eternal destiny of billions of humans acting freely in their own choices, to
the ultimate outcome. His authority extends over all spheres of willful
actions, both by human beings as individuals and a groups, governments, and
societies, and all spiritual dominions, whether elect angelic beings or fallen.
All
earthly rulers are accountable to Him and will be judged by Him in His office
as King of Kings and Lord of Lords. Everyone in heaven and on earth is called
by God to reverence Jesus' majesty, to be ruled by His hand, to do Him proper
homage, and to submit to His power, to the glory of God the Father. (PHILIPPIANS
2)
Everyone
will ultimately stand before Him as He sits in final judgment of both those
living at the time of His Second Coming, and all those who have ever lived on
the earth as sentient beings, as well as all of the angelic orders of creation.
Jesus has the authority to pour out His Holy Spirit upon His church, His
“ecclesia or “called – out ones.”
Jesus
did not pour out the Spirit until He was first seated at the right hand of His
Father God, as this event was another shared work of the Trinity, just as each
other salvific milestone was integral to the entire Godhead’s prerogative and
purpose in redeeming humanity. Although sharing fully with the Father and Son
in the divine Essence, the Holy Spirit has embraced from all eternity His
ministry as “the One like Jesus, called alongside to help,” in subordination to
the Father and the Son.
It
is the Father through the Son, Who together sent Him to apply Jesus Christ's
self-sacrificing work of salvation to all of Jesus’ followers, with holy
enabling, internal energizing, and extraordinary empowerment, available in every place and in every time until the
Redeemer’s visible, physical return to earth. While seated at the right hand of
God, Jesus not only exercises His role as King of Kings, He also fulfills the
role of eternal cosmic Judge.
Jesus
is Judge over all nations and all people and all spiritual dominions,
principalities, powers, rulers and minions. Although Jesus rules as our Judge,
He has also been appointed by the Father to be our advocate. He is our defense
attorney. At the last judgment our court-appointed defense lawyer will be the
presiding Judge over all.
A
foretaste of Jesus' compassionate and Personal intercession on behalf of saints
can be seen in Luke’s recording of the martyrdom of Stephen, who was the first
to die for the Gospel and the Kingdom of God, after Jesus Himself:
But
he [Stephen], being full of the Holy Spirit, gazed into heaven and saw the glory
of God, and Jesus standing at the right hand of God, and said, "Look!
I
see the heavens opened and the Son of Man standing at the right hand of
God!" (ACTS 7:55-56)
May
we each have the blessing of Stephen, to give our all in this life to the very
end, knowing that Jesus awaits us with His arms wide open to us, His
nail-scarred hands reaching out to receive us!
Neil
Uniacke, Executive Director
Monday, May 19, 2014
The Lost Son
Jesus’
parable of the lost son in Luke 15 is one of my favorites and speaks to me of
the deep love of the Father as he waited for his lost son to return home. About
two years ago I counseled a young man who, in many ways, was like this lost
son. Jeff (not his real name), called me because he was in trouble with the
police for having crossed sexual boundaries with an underage young woman. Jeff
actually was arrested and served a year in prison for the numerous offenses he
pleaded guilty to; I counseled him in prison weekly for nearly a year. One of
Jeff’s homework assignments was to write his own version of “The Lost Son” and
share it with me. I am sharing it with you today. Names and some references
have been changed to protect Jeff’s identity.
******* ******* ******* *******
I was a happy
young boy growing up with my parents on the Georgia farm, but then I started
the transition for boyhood to adulthood. I no longer liked what my parents were
doing for me; I wanted to live on my own and have fun. I was convinced that I
knew more than they and that the spiritual atmosphere of my home was keeping me
from having a good time and was keeping me from becoming successful in life.
I started
partying and hanging out with all the wrong people in my Georgia community. My
parents were worried sick and so they asked me if I would want to move to
Pennsylvania where some of my parents’ relatives lived. At first I didn’t want
to, but then I thought I might have more freedom in Pennsylvania and be able to
live it up more, so I agreed to move. Luke 15:13 says the conceited young man
took off for a distant country, and Lancaster County in Pennsylvania was my
distant country.
This lost son
(me), wanted to “sow his wild oats” – he wanted to have a “fling.” I had not yet
learned that one of God’s unchangeable laws it that we reap what we sow. I was
attracted by the allurements of the world and I misused my money, in other
words, I had my fling; I invested my life in sinful pleasures. I believed that
to be happy one must indulge in the pleasures of the world and really live it
up! So I partied hard and got drunk every weekend. I bought my first car and
wasted my money and also started going out with a young woman who was way too
young for me. I crossed sexual boundaries with her and then one night we were
caught by the police.
The arrest
made me understand that I had reached the end of my out-of-control road. I had
run against a wall, so to speak; as it was with the lost son in Luke 15, I had
“run out of money.” My “friends” all left me and I didn’t know what to do. I
actually thought about taking my own life, but something kept me from doing
that.
The police
came to my house one day and took me to prison. I thought my charges would go
away and I would be free, but instead, I found myself in the worst kind of
bondage. Such is the power of sin; it usually starts off as a small, seemingly
innocent thing, but continues to grow. I squandered my money, lost my
“inheritance,” wasted all the spiritual things I had learned, and now I found
myself in prison. I was in a deep pit emotionally, and really depressed. The
four walls of my prison cell made me sick. This is the picture of the condition
of every sinful person. Sin may satisfy for a short time, but soon brings one
to a place of unhappiness and disappointment.
I sat in
prison and began to think of my home and my parents in Georgia, and how good I
had it there. I asked one of the prison guards for a Bible and began reading.
My spiritual values had been twisted and lost by my months of rebellion and
wild living, but now I was beginning to see life more clearly, from a spiritual
point of view. I began to realize that not only had I done evil things, but I
had sinned against God and my family, and I had also, through my immoral actions,
harmed another person and her family.
Luke 15:17
says “he came to himself” – that is, he reflected on what had happened since he
left home; this is exactly what I was doing now. I remembered the days of my
childhood when I used to play with my older brother; I remembered the smell of
the good old farm, and the bedtime prayers my parents taught me when I was a
little boy. God permits hardship and “famine” to come into our lives in order
to cause us to think on what we really have or have had in life.
These
thoughts brightened into a resolution: I would return to God. That night I got
down on my knees in my cell, I cried and prayed, and told God I had sinned and
wanted to come back to him. I confessed all my sin to God and asked for his
forgiveness and began to feel the weight of my sin lift from off my shoulders.
In that same
spirit of confession and repentance I wrote numerous letters to people I had
wronged and told them of the change in my life, confessed my sin to them, and
asked their forgiveness. I was also able to talk with my parents on the phone
and confess to them. To my astonishment, everyone rejoiced when they read the
letters I had sent them and they wrote back to me and assured me I was
forgiven. My father also traveled the 1000-plus miles just to see me; when we
met in the prison Dad greeted me with open arms, a kiss, and crying at the same
time! I will never forget his words of forgiveness to me.
I am still in
prison, but I have made a 180 degree change and am looking forward to a new
life when I get out in a few months. I will always remember, with gratitude,
this picture in Luke 15 of God as a loving Father who delights in forgiving his
lost children who return to him. He longs to see people lay aside their sinful
lifestyle and come to repentance. The road back home for me was hard and
humbling and required confession and repentance, but God is waiting to forgive
anyone who comes to him! I also learned that the true Christian brother/sister
rejoices when a lost son/daughter repents; he/she will never look coldly on
some poor sinner who limps back to Father God!
****** ****** ****** ***** ******
Jeff was
released from prison in May 2013. He is now living with family relatives in
central Pennsylvania and doing well.
Submitted by
Tom Horst
Marriage and
Family Therapist
Tuesday, May 13, 2014
In Honor of Mothers
In honor to and the
memory of all mothers…
What is a Mother?
It takes a Mother's Love
to make a house a home,
A place to be remembered
no matter where we roam.
It take a Mother's Patience,
to bring a child up right,
And her Courage and her Cheerfulness
to make a dark day bright.
It takes a Mother's Thoughtfulness
to mend the heart's deep "hurts,"
And her Skill and her Endurance
to mend little socks and shirts.
It takes a Mother's Kindness
to forgive us when we err,
To sympathize in trouble
and bow her head in prayer.
It takes a Mother's Wisdom
to recognize our needs
And to give us reassurance
by her loving words and deeds.
It takes a Mother's Endless Faith,
her Confidence and Trust
To guide us through the pitfalls
of selfishness and lust.
And that is why in all this world
there could not be another
Who could fulfill God's purpose
as completely as a MOTHER!
Helen Steiner Rice
Submitted by: Ann L. Gantt, Ph.D., LCSW, NEW HOPE counselor
Monday, May 5, 2014
Attitude
I have a Peanuts poster in my office that says, "Attitude is Contagious...Is yours worth Catching?" Some of the teenagers that come in my office have remarked that it is in their guidance counselor's office at school. Questions are asked about what the poster means. Have we become so apathetic that we don't understand the meaning of words?
According to Webster's American English Dictionary, attitude means an opinion or mood. As a counselor, I am to have a servant's attitude, one of humbleness and meekness and non-judgmental.
Contagious means transmittable or infectious. Other people will be affected by my behavior and attitude. As God's servant is my behavior Christ-like or do I need to have an "attitude adjustment"? The Bible has many verses that deal with all kinds of attitudes from bitterness and gloom to having a new and right spirit. We get so caught up in everything going on around us that we forget that others are watching our behavior which includes our attitude.
So we need to be reminded and ask ourselves, "is my attitude worth catching"?
Elaine Campbell, MA, MHC
According to Webster's American English Dictionary, attitude means an opinion or mood. As a counselor, I am to have a servant's attitude, one of humbleness and meekness and non-judgmental.
Contagious means transmittable or infectious. Other people will be affected by my behavior and attitude. As God's servant is my behavior Christ-like or do I need to have an "attitude adjustment"? The Bible has many verses that deal with all kinds of attitudes from bitterness and gloom to having a new and right spirit. We get so caught up in everything going on around us that we forget that others are watching our behavior which includes our attitude.
So we need to be reminded and ask ourselves, "is my attitude worth catching"?
Elaine Campbell, MA, MHC
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